Smile- A small five letters word but the most powerful tool fully in control of yourself to bring positivity. The smaller the word the more difficult it is to maintain in the current era where everyone is running behind a golden goose. People have no time for themselves let alone others. No matter how busy you are and how bad you feel, the least one can do is to bear a smiling face in all his dealings. It's useful in professional as well as personal front.
A famous Chinese proverb says'' A shopkeeper who doesn't has a smiling face must not open his shop.'' Smile is the weapon, one can use to win his enemies. Its value in wining friends is beyond doubt. A single smile like the first ray of Sun is enough to tear apart the dark clouds of gloominess and negativity.
Smile is the most powerful magnet which attracts likewise response. The very first moment you pass a genuine sincere smile to everyone you greet on your way to workplace early in the morning you are bound to start a chain of positivity. Remember the moment when you returned from home last evening completely exhausted and frustrated with your professional life, your 6 months old baby came crawling to you and smiled and you forgot everything but his smile.
A expression is worth thousands words. The face you carry everyday everywhere with you tells all about you. What you think, every relative or business client that meets you would like to see you as a person with gloomy face with lips falling down with grin look or someone with bright eyes, lips making a perfect curve and a happy face. A smiling face give an indication that the person is happy to see others.
As Dale Carnegie (Author of how to win friends and influence people) said in his book there are only two way to forget your worries and be a happy person -:
- Force yourself to smile and to do that Act As If You Are Happy.. While alone sing a song, put smiling face in front of mirror, remember the happiest moment of your life....
- The second one which is also most important is to follow the first one whole heartedly...
Smile is the most efficient and easiest exercise which can work wonder to your glow of face and health both as it involves all the muscles of face. Every year women and men spent a lot of money for cosmetics, surgery etc. just to keep a glowing face which they can get free of cost with smiles.
So from next time whenever and wherever you go have a smiling face but ensure that its not a insincere grin... Even if you don't feel to have a good smile; remember what Carnegie said ACTS AS IF.......




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